Friday, December 11, 2009

If someone blushes and lacks eye contact when they open up about themselves, what would you think?

The person keeps eye contact when they are listening to or asking about others, but when they decide to talk or open up about themselves, they blush and look downwards a lot.





What would you think about the person, about the behavior, etc?If someone blushes and lacks eye contact when they open up about themselves, what would you think?
He/She is embarrassed and afraid to share personal details. He's trusting, because he's sharing, but he's scared because he's been ridiculed, humiliated, isolated and denigrated in the past.





He/she has some personal shame and little experience with acceptance.If someone blushes and lacks eye contact when they open up about themselves, what would you think?
They are shy and not comfortable talking about themselves, or they have low self esteem and are afraid that you don't ';like'; them.
I would think that this is a person who's not comfortable dealing with themselves or that they are expecting you to think less than great thought about what ever it is that they are telling you. When people can't look you in the eyes when they are talking to you, they are either unsure of what they are telling you or they aren't telling you the truth. Most of the time it's they are unsure of what they are saying or they aren't sure how you will take what they are saying.
It's thier nervousness kicking in. People tend not to want to be so forward about themselves because they don't want to get too attached to the person incase the relationship turns out to be a flop. It's a natural human defense, but some people have it less and some have it more. Don't worry about it. People will accept them for who they are, and if they don't then they need to not change.
That they are shy, which is really cute actually. It means they care about that person's opinion. It's a sign of respect. :-) At least that's how I am. lol
they're lying

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